A gift to Muslim Bride (Book Review)

A gift to muslim bride

 A gift for a Muslim Bride: A book that teaches her to start a new life with her husband

When A Girl is about to get married,she is nervous and apprehensive of her new life .In those moments , she needs someone who talk to her ,comfort her ,erase her fear and guide her to an establishment of a happy family .I remember my marriage days.I was like,”Wait,I don’t know anything.How will I be a good wife ? “My mother then comforted me and  gave me a book that had all the essential details I needed to know . She said ,I am your mother .The things I cannot say you openly ,you will find it in this book.

I learned that the golden rule to keep in mind are :-

1)Your Husband is your door to Paradise

There are in numerous hadeeth that states that a Husband is he door to Paradise for a woman.

1)Ahmad (19025) and al-Haakim narrated from al-Husayn ibn Muhsin that his paternal aunt came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) for something and he dealt with her need, then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Do you have a husband?” She said, “Yes.” He said: “How are you with him?” She said, “I do not neglect any of his rights except those I am unable to fulfill.” He said: “Look at how you are with him, for he is your paradise and your hell” – i.e., he is the cause of you entering Paradise if you fulfil his rights and the cause of your entering Hell if you fall short in that.

Al-Mundhiri classed the isnaad of this hadeeth as jayyid in al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb; it was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb, no. 1933.

2)Ibn Hibbaan narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you wish.’” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 660.

2)Your Husband deserves to be Respected.

A Husband deserves to be respected. I remember a hadeeth,

Ibn Maajah (1853) narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Abi Awfa said: When Mu’aadh came from Syria, he prostrated to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said, “What is this, O Mu’aadh?” He said, I went to Syria and saw them prostrating to their archbishops and patriarchs, and I wanted to do that for you. The Messenger of Allaah (S) said, “Do not do that. If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone other than Allaah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands. By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman can fulfil her duty towards Allaah until she fulfils her duty towards her husband. If he asks her (for intimacy) even if she is on her camel saddle, she should not refuse.”

Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah.

A lesson

If every girl remembers this few hadeeths,she would be In sha Allah able to suppress a little of her ego,a little of her nafs and a little of her desire but in return get abundant of thawab, abundant of love and abundant mercy from Allah swt,In sha Allah.

If you too  would like to derive benefit from this book ,consider reading this book .It is “A Gift to Muslim Bride ” by Muhammad Haneef Abdul Majeed

A Gift to Muslim Bride

A gift to muslim bride

Get it at only $7

This book, truthfully, is an ideal gift to Muslim sisters (brides), as this book mainly deals with the concerned affairs of newly married life according to the Qur’an and Sunnah; touching upon topics like the excellence of a righteous wife, her attributes and duties to her husband, How to live amicably with in-laws avoiding all domestic disputes and How to harmonise with husband’s sentiments and preferences, to capture his heart and inclusive attention. etc. A Gift for a Muslim Bride also contains stories of some exemplary women, advices and other precious parting advices as a light of guidance. By practicing them, a home can become a garden of Jannah. This book should be read in sequence cover to cover and pass the advices on to other Muslim sisters.

This book cites the sterling examples of six women during the time of Rasulullaah SAW. The lessons that this book teaches include:

  • Obeying the husband
  • True love for the husband Honouring and serving the husband
  • Being loyal towards the husband
  • Making one’s husband a Muslim or a pious person Qualities of a good wife
  • How to remain the beloved of one’s husband  Bad habits of women and ways of losing them
  • How to live in harmony with one’s in-laws
  • The rights that women owe to their husbands
  • Advice for the married couple Formulas to avoid disputes between a bride and her husband, mother-in-law and sisters-in-law, which often lead to premature separations and bitter feelings between entire families

Besides the above there are many other subjects and solutions discussed. By practising the teachings of this book, a home can become a garden of Jannah and means of attaining success in this world and in the Aakhirah (Hereafter).

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Detail:

Author : The Book is written by  Muhammad Haneef Abdul Majeed

This Book is in English and has 462 Page.The binding is very good and has an attractive cover.You can get it online  at only 7$

 

 


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