Strengthening Marriage Through Closeness to Allah

Strengthening Marriage Through Closeness to Allah

Marriage in Islam is not just a worldly contract but a sacred bond built on love, mercy, and mutual respect. The Qur’an beautifully describes this relationship:

“And among His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.”(Surah Ar-Rum 30:21)

A marriage flourishes when both husband and wife strive to come closer to Allah. The stronger their connection with their Creator, the stronger their bond becomes with each other.

When both spouses move closer to Allah, they naturally move closer to one another. But if they move away from Allah, they also drift apart emotionally and spiritually.

A Couple Close to Allah Will Be Close to Each Other

When both husband and wife obey Allah, establish salah, recite Qur’an, and uphold Islamic values, their hearts are united. Their love is not based only on fleeting desires, but on something eternal—their shared faith. Such a relationship is built on:

• Trust in Allah’s guidance
• Mutual respect and kindness
• Shared spiritual goals

A Couple Far From Allah Will Be Distant From Each Other

On the other hand, when Allah is absent from a marriage, problems easily multiply. Arguments become harder to resolve, love begins to fade, and ego takes the place of mercy. Without a higher purpose uniting them, couples often feel emotionally and spiritually distant.

Golden Piece of Advice

“The greater the distance between Allah and the spouses, the greater the distance will be between the spouses themselves. And the closer you are to Allah, the closer you will be to your spouse.”

This reminder should inspire every couple to make Allah the center of their marriage.

Practical Tips for Couples to Grow Closer to Allah

1. Pray Together – Establishing salah as a couple brings barakah into the home.
2. Read Qur’an Together – Even a few verses daily can nurture both hearts.
3. Make Du’a for Each Other – Ask Allah to bless your marriage with love and mercy.
4. Practice Forgiveness – Remember Allah loves those who forgive, so forgive each other often.
5. Support Each Other Spiritually – Encourage your spouse to do good deeds and remind each other gently of Allah.

Conclusion

A successful marriage in Islam is one that revolves around Allah. When a husband and wife walk the path of faith together, every step brings them closer—not only to their Creator but also to each other. By keeping Allah at the center of their relationship, they find love that is lasting, peaceful, and filled with barakah.