10 Practical tips of Islamic Parenting

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10 Practical Tips of Islamic Parenting for Modern Parents

Who Doesn’t Want a Pious and Obedient Child?Almost Every One of Us.But Do you know that It is not that Easy.Take a Moment and Ask Yourself ,What do you do for the Moral Upbringing of your children?Our Kids are Our Responsibility and we will be Questioned about their Upbringing.If You Haven’t been doing Enough, It is high time that you look into the Moral Upbringing Of Your Child.Here are few Really Useful Parenting Tips that may help You. Enjoy Reading and do try to Implement them-

1.Explain them the Good and the Bad

Show Your kids the values of good deeds and their effects on the individuals and society and also show them the effects of bad deeds, all within the child’s capability of understanding.

2. Set An Example

Parents should be a good example in their behavior because children like to imitate their parents in their sayings and their deeds.For Instance If You read Salah in time,they will learn Prayer quite fast.

3.Show them Examples

Expain them the Correct behaviour with stories with morals and show them examples from environment.

4.Educative trip

Take them on trips which enhance Spirituality .For Instance You can Take them to Masjid or religious gathering.Taking part in the celebrations and festivals with Muslims, and sharing picnics and creating ties with their Muslim brothers of the same age is also a good Effort.

5.Keep an Eye on the types of friend they make:

One of the important things that parents must teach their children is to choose the good company and to the avoid the bad one, because children are always influenced by the company they keep. The bad behavior can be easily transmitted through bad company. So the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, warned us by saying, “Man is inclined to get influenced by his friend’s manners, so one must be careful in choosing friends.” (Reported by Abu Dawud & At-Tirmidhi).

6.Treat your Kids Well and be Patient with them.

The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) taught us that practically. When he was praying as an Imam with the people, his grandson Al-Hasan, son of his daughter Fatimah, may Allah be pleased with them rode his back while he was bowing. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, lengthened his bow. When he finished his prayer, some attending Companions said, “You lengthened your bow?” Then the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, answered, “My grandson rode my back and I hate hastening him”

7.Start at an Early Age

The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said: “Order your children to pray at the age of seven.” Teach your child the religious Principles and the art of doing Worship at an early age.Young minds are very fertile and very high grasping potential.

  1. The Love of Allah and Muhammad(pbuh)

Imbuing in children the feeling of love of Allah, His Prophet, Muslims, and all people is Our Resposibility.This love will lead to special behavior towards all those loved. 20 These are general guidelines to raise our children Islamically, so every Muslim must take care of his children and know the correct path that must be followed. This will help us do the job we are entrusted to do as Allah proscribed, as well as the responsibility the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, has clarified, with aim of protecting the future generations of Muslims, as Allah Almighty says: (And Say Do deeds! Allah will see your deeds, and (so will) his Messenger and the believers. And you will be brought back to the All-Knower of the unseen and the seen. Then He will inform you of what you used to do.) (At-Tawbah: 105)

9)Do Not Accuse them in a Direct Way.

Kids are Prone to make Mistakes.Unfortunately they become a target of our bad Mood.We Sould Exercise Patience and explain thier fault in a reasonable manner so the they learn from their Mistakes.

10)Use Interactive tools.

Remember they are just Kids.Play wth them,Learn with them..have fun Dear Parents!

                         Read Some Hadeeth on Islamic Parenting:

                                              5 Tips of Islamic Parenting from Hadeeth of Prophet Muhammad(pbuh)

 

 


 

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Assalamu Alaikum. I am Aafia an ilm Seeker who seeks to Spread the beauty of Islam .Prophet Muhammad(SAW) has advised :"Acquire knowledge and impart it to the people" - (Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 107 ). If You found this Post Useful,remember me and my Parents in Your Prayers.And do feel free to leave a feedback . JazakAllahu Khair

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